Andrew Roe

More quotable quotes from my five-year-old son Ethan…

“Can I marry a girl or a boy?”

“Hollywood? There’s no such thing as Hollywood.”

“Coloring is my dream. I color every day.”

“I’m going to be Teddy Roosevelt for Halloween. Next year I’m going to be Albert Einstein.” *

“Are your bones glued together?”

“These socks are really stretchy and good for doing things and maybe like killing bad guys.”

“PBS Kids is real.”

“Too bad everyone doesn’t have penises.”

* Ethan is also currently writing a book about our 26th president.

A few quotes from a recent Rumpus interview with the great Lydia Davis (italics mine)…

Rumpus: There are certain words that come up again and again in your work: “anger” and “disturbance,” and to some extent “upset” and “annoyance.” Many times the narrators and characters are walking around with loads of anger. From the story “Story”: “Finally I sit down and write in my notebook that when he calls me either he will then come to me, or he will not and I will be angry, and so I will have either him or my own anger, and this might be all right, since anger is always a great comfort…” I’ve found that in life anger is one of the most common yet hidden emotions. What is it about anger that makes you reference it so? How would you define it? Would you consider it central to your work?

Davis: I would hope that I wouldn’t have to say anger was central to my work—that sounds so sad. I suppose people are more likely to turn to writing when they’re filled with a negative emotion than with a positive one, so the stories might be disproportionately negative—angry, sad, upset, etc. There is simply less of a need to “frame” or “distance” a positive emotion. I read somewhere that anger is always a secondary emotion; i.e. the primary one might be fear, or frustration. I found that very interesting. Now, I look beyond the anger to see what the primary emotion might be.

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Rumpus: A few writer friends have expressed how they would prefer to have a mentor rather than go through a creative writing program. How important is a mentor for a writer trying to find their way? Did you have one?

Davis: I would be wary of both the writing workshop and the mentor. Each is useful in small doses, but each can have too great an influence—dangerous. I would suggest working mainly on one’s own, with, as I said, occasional doses of mentorship and/or writing group situations. A friend with the same sensibility who gives useful feedback is also good—or several for different kinds of work.

From Don DeLillo’s short story “Baader-Meinhof,” published in The New Yorker in 2002:

His cell phone rang. He dug it out of his body and spoke briefly, then sat with the thing in his hand, looking thoughtful.

“I should remember to turn it off. But I think, If I turn it off, what will I miss? Something so incredible.”

“The call that changes everything.”

“Something so incredible. The total life-altering call. That’s why I respect my cell phone.”

(You have to be a New Yorker subscriber to read the story online, but The Guardian has it for free here.)

(Wrote this up a while back but forgot to post…)

Some interesting comments from a Big Other post that quoted an interview with Amy Hempel:

Interviewer: As a writing teacher, and in the interest of all the aspiring writers reading this, what’s the most common mistake young, fresh writers make?

Amy Hempel: This is the young writer mistake question: Wanting to publish more than wanting to write well.

The post was titled “Amy Hempel’s Answer — What’s Yours?”

Steve Himmer chimed in with this comment:

“To some degree, I think the constant hum of the online lit community exacerbates that pressure [to publish], and the rapidity with which stories go from written to submitted to published online. I’m not getting all Andrew Keen here and blaming the web, but for me at least the constant awareness via Facebook and Twitter and email of who’s publishing what and where and how often makes it harder to find the calm, quiet corner where my writing actually needs to get done. Obviously, it’s up to me – not the web – to tune that noise out and do the work.

“So maybe my advice to young (and old) writers would be — along with what Hempel said — to get offline more often and trust in the possibilities of your own quiet corner.”

For me, finding that quiet corner has been a challenge. Yes, there is family, job, house, commute, my Vaudeville act, etc.

But part of the challenge also involves what Steve is talking about. In the past I’ve tried to take a break from FB, blogs, keeping up with what other writers are doing, and so on; yet I’ve found it very difficult to detach.

The constant hum is, well, constant. And I get caught up in it more than I should.

I like Steve’s advice to get offline and trust in the possibilities of your own quiet corner. Now it’s a matter of actually taking it…